Some people in that 50 stop having sex with other people either by choice or otherwise. There can be a number of reasons why.When my youngest were 16 and 17 we we're still sharing a bed, but I was getting increasingly bored with the mechanics of sex. So much disengagement. I wanted a divorce. I was in this country all by myself I lost my original citizenship. Finally I said 'Im done, Im bored. I want seperate bedrooms, and its been that way ever since.
It makes me really happy I had such a great active one while I was younger. I wouldn't change a thing about my past.
It's gone I want to figure out how I can have a sex life again.
All through my thirties and forties i was busy with the children and barely have time for sex. I noted that it was difficult for my poor husband, in those decades. But now things have reversed. My husband's interests is diminished. It really doesn't seem fair.
Some people stop having sex because they loose that sexual confidence as a result of body image problems.
Im less secure about my body now at age. When I was young I had no qualms about getting naked and strutted in style. Now much more shy, although I'm still not what are called self conscious.
As I get older I would say that I'm more self conscious in general. But I have no problems with arousal. The desire is more complicated.
I think of my chin hair now as a stray eyebrow.
Dr Sharon O'Conner.
Feelings of physical inadequacy are more likely to emerge if a woman in her fifties considers herself a composition with younger women.
Men and women seem so different about sex. Men can have a quickie without feeling bad, I suppose if you women can. If you believe that character from Sex in the City. But I'm not one of them. I'm suspicious now and understand that about me. It's a conundrum. Part of me wants to get back into a relationship, while the other says I don't wanna go through another depression of feeling rejected because he wants a 20 year old.
Dr Pamela Stephenson Connolly
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