Sexlife, Eroticism

Eroticism with much dramatically changing body and emotions to match, how many of us who have safely passed through the other side of the tumuultous teenage years would willingly go back? Probably those who missed experienced such Heightened eroticism.

I Remember how powerful touch was I was a 14 years old,  I remember being at the drive-in with a 19 year old boy and my tag along brother all sitting in a row. All this boy did and I did was hold hands but it was very intoxicating my parents caught on and called his parents telling him not to come by anymore.

Many people I see in therapy especially those struggling with lack of desire say things like even just holding hands in a movie was more erotic than any sex in my current life and contry to the popular belief having erotic feelings brought on by holding hands is a sexual experience American President Bill Clinton was not alone in using the terminology to his advantage when he said 'I do not have sexual relations with that woman' . There many possible tions for phrases like having sex having sexual relationships or making love but essentially your sexual pleasure is deliberately endangered by any kind of contact including on the phone or via the Internet or inserting a cigar in a woman's vagina as Clinton is said to have done it can be defined as above.

Dr Pamela Stephenson Connolly