Sexlife, What turns you on?

People respond differently to various types of stimulus. Some are most turned on by visual cues perhaps the sight of breasts, buttocks, legs or muscular arms. While others thrill to sexy words whispered in their ears. Another group of people are so tactile in their programming that nothing beats the sensation of touch itself.

Men love without their eyes, women love with their ears. Za Za Gabor

That may be true for many people, but that is not always the case. It's worth learning about one 's lover's responses whether they are more visual, auditory, kinesthetic or olfactory. After all,why waste time dressing for sex if your partner would rather you mastered the fine art of erotic conversation?

I'm too shy to express my sexual needs, except over the phone to people i do not know. Garry Shandling. 

Or what if your lover would prefer you to pay more attention to allowing your own natural aroma to invade his all have senses?

The big turn on for me was her smell. I never liked her to wear perfume because her own sent is so arousing.

I'll be back from war in three days, Josephine don't bathe! Napoleon Bonaparte.

Dr Pamela Stephenson Connelly