Sex is normally a healthy activity but there are some instances when I saw some people use sex in various unhealthy or even damaging way. There are all kinds of reasons you can be used or hurt someone.
Looking back on it now, I guess I was using sex as a means of hurting myself. I had such a low opinion of myself, I found all kinds of horrible older men, who are only too happy to collude with me.
My husband raped me after I told him I wanted a divorce.
When I was in my early twenties a very beautiful girl made a part play for me. I was living with a serious boyfriend so I don't understand why I was attracted to her. A couple of very erotic experiences but I kept thinking it meant more to her than it did to me. One day she invited me to her place and we started making love in the living room but I had an uneasy feeling and suddenly noticed the room seemed different with an extra wall. Then I realised that I her husband with watching us from behind in a two way mirror. It was really creepy, I got out of there as fast as I could.
Dr Pamela Stephenson Connolly
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